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Its been 6 years….
Its time❤
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My Heart Beat

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It is 2013, and what better way to start off the new year on a fresh exciting note!!!

Okay, my only new year’s resolution, is to put a bit more time and effort into this space, and, please Lawd help me, find inspiration not in pain and heartache, but the everyday joys and pleasures.

One pleasure I indulge myself in every morning, that usually determines my attitude for the day ahead, is my outfit for the day. I should mention, I love shopping like all women, and unfortunately, sometimes you can only do so little shopping with a tight budget, so, creativity starts kicking in.

I will be documenting some of my inspirational “recycled” outfits now and again. Well, by recycled I don’t mean I will be showing you outfits made out of plastic and all sorts of recycled material, (I’m not that brave / daring), but rather how to…

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A candle loses nothing by lighting another

Someone I was talking to said this, “A candle loses nothing by lighting another”.

I chose to remember by posting a blog heading. But now I can’t remember exactly who said it!

I am hoping that, soon, one of these days, I can elaborate further on it.

For now, let me go research this statement!

Stay tuned.

The Nelson Mandela Bridge at night!!!!

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Photo credit: © Sandisile Tshuma 2012

I have seen it, and I stumbled into this pic in one of the blogs I read now and again. And I really had to repost it.

Jozi people, there is an iconic bridge, just as fabulous as the icon its been named after. you will find it when you cross over from Jozi CBD to Braamfontein. Some have seen it, only in broad daylight.

This is one of the most amazing scenic Jozi night moments, that a lot miss out on, because “Joburg CBD is dangerous!!” Well, with sights like these, I will move heaven and earth, just to experience them. somehow the “Danger” always has mercy on me…. and no, it’s not because of the colours, its the magic in the bridge!!!

We have a beautiful city, and I don’t mean Sandton and all those areas people usually associate with the beauty of Jozi, I am referring to the downtown, the scary side, and you know what, I will keep posting these beautiful scenes. They have a lot to do with my love of this city. I am convinced there is magic in Jozi.

Cravings… of a different kind

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Let’s talk about cravings. Women have been known to have the weirdest of cravings!! Its starts with PMS, just before that time of the month you find yourself craving all sorts of food you don’t normally think about during the month.

When you fall pregnant, one of the first indicators and changes that a woman experiences is the change in food interests. You crave the weirdest concoctions and unusual foods. Its normal, women experience these at some point in their lives.

The craving that has me typing away this time is a different kind of a craving. I have rarely experienced this before, and no woman openly admits to having these kinds of cravings. This has come about as a result of my all-of-a-sudden single status. I have never been married, but for as long as I started dating I have always had “someone”. The significance of that someone has varied from occasional flings, friends with benefits, and boyfriends. They always overlap and there is at least one kind in the picture. They always fulfilled this need. I am not talking about being horny, no.

Then there was that someone special, that you think will stick around for a while, and he left. And my closet was clean, nothing whatsoever. All of a sudden I am craving, a man to sleep next to me. Just sleep, no cushy business, just sleep, and wake up next to me. My son has been sleeping in my bed, but I have chased him out of my bed, I want a man. That will wake up next to me. That is my craving. And there is nobody to fulfil it.

Why has nobody told me there are such cravings??? How do I fulfil them?