Context is everything – unlearning and relearning parameters

“I’m Done…” Undervaluing myself Doubting myself Feeling inadequate Seeking other’s approval Being apologetic about who I am Trying to please Being too kind even when being taken advantage of. Nomna, Dec 2016 Today I had to remind myself the lessons I learnt in therapy and my “I’m Done… list” that followed this learning affirmation. But […]

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Corporate Laden

The heading or topic was written 3 months ago or so. Days and nights and mealtimes and playtimes and drinking times were filled with work. If they ever existed at all. Tons of work, endless visits to anyone who can shed a light to what seemed like the most exciting mountain to climb yet taking […]

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My BBBEE status

I have discovered that the minute a man says they are self-employed; they instantly lose credibility to me. The first thing that rings in mind is that they are not stable financially, and could potentially be a burden. Unlike me and my employed fellows, most times they are never sure of when they will be […]

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